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Robert is the author of the Joyously inspirational
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Codependence:
The Dance of Wounded Souls
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This page includes quotes from Codepenence: The
Dance of Wounded Souls, quotes from other
articles, columns, and web pages (indented) written by Robert Burney,
and quotes from
The Dance of the Wounded Souls Trilogy.
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The True Nature of Love - part 4, Energetic Clarity
By Robert Burney
"The key to healing our wounded souls
is to get clear and honest in our emotional process. Until we can
get clear and honest with our human emotional responses - until we change
the twisted, distorted, negative perspectives and reactions to our human
emotions that are a result of having been born into, and grown up in, a
dysfunctional, emotionally repressive, Spiritually hostile environment
- we cannot get clearly in touch with the level of emotional energy that
is Truth. We cannot get clearly in touch with and reconnected to
our Spiritual Self.
We, each and every one of us, has an inner channel
to Truth, an inner channel to the Great Spirit. But that inner channel
is blocked up with repressed emotional energy, and with twisted, distorted
attitudes and false beliefs."
(All quotations in this color are from Codependence:
The Dance of Wounded Souls)
"It can be relatively easy to access Love and
Joy in relationship with nature. It is in our relationships with
other people that it gets messy. That is because we learned how to
relate to other people in childhood from wounded people who learned how
to relate to other people in their childhood. In our core relationship
with ourselves we don't feel Lovable. That can make it very difficult
to connect with other people in a clean and energetically clear way that
helps us to access Love from the Source instead of viewing the other person
as the source. We are so defended, because of the pain we have experienced,
that we are not open to connecting with others. If we haven't done
the grief work from the past we are not open to feeling our feelings in
the moment. As long as we are blocking the pain and anger and fear,
we are also blocking the Love and Joy. The more we heal our emotional
wounds and change our intellectual programming the more capacity we have
to be in the moment and tune into the Love within.
I will discuss further in the next column in this
series, how to differentiate between looking outside for the source and
combining our energy with some outside influence to help us access the
Source within."
The
True Nature of Love-part 3, Love as a Vibrational Frequency
. . . . . As I say in the quote above from the last column in this series,
relating to nature is easy - relating to other people is messy. That
is because we did not learn how to have a healthy relationship with ourselves
in early childhood. We have to clear up our relationship with our
self in order to see our self clearly before we can start to see our relationship
to other humans clearly.
And I want to make a point right at the beginning of this article that
this is a gradual process of finding a sense of balance - not an
absolute destination. . . . . .
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