One of the core characteristics of this disease of Codependence is intellectual polarization - black and white thinking.  Rigid extremes - good or bad, right or wrong, love it or leave it, one or ten.  Codependence does not allow any gray area - only black and white extremes.

Life is not black and white.  Life involves the interplay of black and white.  In other words, the gray area is where life takes place.  A big part of the healing process is learning the numbers two through nine - recognizing that life is not black and white.

Life is not some kind of test, that if we fail, we will be punished.  We are not human creatures who are being punished by an avenging god.  We are not trapped in some kind of tragic place out of which we have to earn our way by doing the "right" things.

We are Spiritual Beings having a human experience.  We are here to learn.  We are here to go through this process that is life.  We are here to feel these feelings.

We - the old souls who are involved in the Transformational Healing Movement - have been given an incredible opportunity for growth and healing.  We have been presented with what - to our human eyes and our human hearts - is a great tragedy, a profound injustice.  Thousands of innocent people killed.  A whole nation traumatized by horrifying images. Our way of life has been fundamentally altered - possibly permanently.

We need to feel the emotions but we need to do it honestly and responsibly in order to maximize the healing possible from this opportunity.  Of course, none of us will do it perfectly.  We are wounded humans in the process of healing.  We are doing the best we are capable of in any given moment.  This is an opportunity on a personal level for each of us to do some more healing within - in our relationship with our self.

What is so important both individually and collectively, what I am feeling a great urgency to communicate to you Kindred Spirits, is the importance of not buying into black and white thinking.  We have an opportunity to do some major healing in relationship to polarity.  Polarity is the enemy here.  Polarity supports the illusion of separation - from each other, from The Source.  Polarity is a lie.  Yin and Yang are ONE - not opposing forces in conflict.  We are all ONE in LOVE.  As I show in my book, quantum physics has now scientifically proven we are all connected, we are all ONE. 

We old souls already Know that.  We have already been remembering that for some time.  What is important now is to integrate it more fully into our inner process.  Change some more of our polarized ego programming.  Have faith enough to walk through fear - based upon multiple lifetimes of experience - and open up to tuning more clearly into Love.

While writing this there were times when I was feeling a lot of fear.  Verging on terror at times.  My human self would much prefer to keep a low profile and to not put my self out there as a target.  My mission however is to be a messenger of Truth.  In order to settle the Karma I came into body to settle in this lifetime, it is necessary for me to stand up in public and speak my Truth.

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