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New October 30th, 2008
I am now posting quotes & news regularly on my Facebook page.
"A relationship is a partnership, an alliance, not some game with winners and losers. When the interaction in a relationship becomes a power struggle about who is right and who is wrong then there are no winners." -
New & News October 27, 2014: Reminder, I will be the featured speaker at the Annual New England CoDA Convention in Boston area in November and will offer a 3 hour inner child healing / Spiritual Integration workshop following the Convention on Sunday November 23rd. Also I have added testimonials from October workshop to the Intensive Testimonials page and am announcing a new Intensive date on April 26, 2015.
New & News September 15, 2014: Announcing that an audiobook of Romantic Relationships ~ The Greatest Arena for Spiritual & Emotional Growth eBook 1: Codependent Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics & Healthy Relationship Behavior is now available on Audible, Amazon, and iTunes. My latest blog includes excerpts from my eBook The Metaphysics of Emotions - emotional energy is real (which is the follow up to my eBook The Law of Attraction - Misunderstood & Misinterpreted.) I have posted a sale page for the Fall of 2014.
New & News September 1. 2014: My latest blog: Inner Child Healing Paradigm - an emotional healing framework ~ Chapter 18 Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light. I have added testimonials from August workshop to the Intensive Testimonials page and am announcing a new Intensive date on February 15, 2015.
New & News August 10th, 2014: Announcing that I will be the featured speaker at the Annual New England CoDA Convention in Boston area in November and will offer a 3 hour inner child healing / Spiritual Integration workshop following the Convention on November 23rd. Also, a video interview that I did as part of an online Holistic Health Summit: Codependency Recovery Expert Robert Burney Interview-Holistic Health Summit.
New & News July 6th: My latest blog: Chapter 18 - Foundation for Healthy Romantic Relationships from Romantic Relationships ~ The Greatest Arena for Spiritual & Emotional Growth.
New & News June 8th: My latest blog: Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 1 Empowerment, Freedom, and Inner Peace through Inner Child Healing Chapter 35 Co-Creation: Owning your Power to Manifest Love. Dancing in The Light is for sale here - and also here with phone counseling.
New & News May 28th: My 28th Codependency Recovery anniversay is on June 3rd.
New & News May 5th: I have added testimonials from May workshop to the Intensive Testimonials page and am announcing a new Intensive date on October 26, 2014.
New & News April 13th: Miracles on The Path of one Recovering Codependent ~ the dance of one wounded soul - an excerpt from the Joy2MeU Journal which is on sale now Special Offers.
New & News April 6th: Codependents as Emotional Vampires a chapter from online book Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 2: A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life. This book is only available in Dancing in Light subscription area of Joy2MeU which is on sale now.
New & News February 15th: Announcing there is now a Korean Language version of Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls. Other languages it is available in include: A German Translation that is available through the publishers website or through Amazon; there is a Dutch Translation that is offered as a free download; an Italian eBook version that is available through Amazon; and a French translation should be coming soon.
New & News February 1st: I updated my Special Offers page with offers for phone counseling, workshop, subscriptions, MP3 downloads, Wounded Soul Trilogy, multiple copies of my first book.
New & News January 5th 2014: My 30th Sobriety Birthday was on January 3rd, 2014 - I share some thoughts and links about my sobriety on this page A Higher Power of my own understanding 2 - the beginning of empowerment. I have added testimonials from January workshop to the Intensive Testimonials page and am announcing a new Intensive date on June 29, 2014.
New & News December 14th, 2013: I added the latest batch of testimonials from people whose lives have been changed by my book, tapes, and website to the Testimonial page - and the latest phone counseling testimonials on the Phone Counseling Testimonials page. I also added new links to the Recommended Links page.
New & News November 24th, 2013: I have started a new wordpress Blog CodependencyRecoveryExpert - and here is a recording of an interview I gave on blogtalk radio on 11/11.
New & News October 23rd 2013: Special offers for my Inner Child Healing and/or Romantic Relationship books and for MP3 downloads of Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls and recording of Life Changing workshop A Day Long Intensive Training in Robert Burney's Spiritual Integration Formula for Inner Healing.
New & News August 15th, 2013: I have moved and have a new address and phone number. PO Box 98 Fallbrook CA 92088 (it is much better to contact me by email or phone than by snail mail - although I will respond immediately to orders that come by mail, it takes me forever to answer regular mail inquiries.) New phone: 760-451-6213
New & News June 23, 2013: Announcing a new Landing Site with a brief overview of the work of Codependency Recovery Inner Child Healing Pioneer Robert Burney - including links to my articles on websites that are user friendly for mobile devices.
New & News February 26th, 2013: Announcing the publication of Robert’s newest eBook: The Metaphysics of Emotions - emotional energy is real. This ebook is the follow up to The Law of Attraction - Misunderstood & Misinterpreted - and the two ebooks will be combined in one hard copy book. The Metaphysics of Emotions - emotional energy is real is available in Amazon Kindle format. Also posted a sale page for the March 17th Intensive Training Day.
New & News February 24th, 2013: I have posted a page with a link to the official Co-Dependents Anonymous website with a list of Patterns & Characteristics of Codependence Am I Codependent. I have also extended my sale page with offers for my Romantic Relationships and Inner Child Healing books and the one for the MP3 downloads of Codependence The Dance of Wounded Souls and the recording of my Life Changing Workshop.
This eBook is the first of two that will be combined and published as a hard copy book in February. In this one I am talking about what I see as misinterpretations and misunderstandings in the way the Law of Attraction is being taught that actually feed into people’s codependency. Here is a quote from the eBook about why I wrote it.
"I am publishing this book because I believe that the way the Law of Attraction is being taught by most people who are teaching it today is not ultimately Loving. I believe it is being taught in a way that makes many of the people hearing it feel ashamed; in a way that causes people to focus on reaching a destination at the expense of being present in the now; in a way that reinforces the delusion that there is something inherently wrong with being human, with human beings. It is also being taught by most spiritual teachers in a way that discounts and devalues emotions and emotional healing."
I address the emotional component in the second eBook - The Metaphysics of Emotions - which could be done this month but more likely February. I will then be publishing both ebooks in one paperback book: The Law of Attraction - Misunderstood & Misinterpreted A Larger Spiritual Paradigm - including The Metaphysics of Emotions.
New & News December 30th 2012: Announcing that a new audio version of Codependence The Dance of Wounded Souls A Cosmic Perspective of Codependence and the Human Condition is now available on audible.com This is a literal audio book with another narrator - not the audio that I did myself which was slightly abridged. I think that the narrator did a good job - but of course it doesn't have the passion and the points of emphasis that the one I did has. As one person's feedback stated:
"The audio version is absolutely a mind-blowing audio spiritual experience! You rock, man!! It's one thing to read the articles on the clinically electric computer screen and completely another level of involvement hearing the man himself utter his own words of wisdom and spiritual alchemy. One can tell that you aren't just mumbling through a book you've written; while listening it becomes certain that the message truly is your spiritual truth and not just some neatly packaged intellectual mind job disguising itself in spiritual language. An enormous THANK YOU for sharing your story and perspective for all the world to see, I truly appreciate it, man!"
The version that I did is for sale right now as an MP3 download.
New & News September 2012: Announcing the publication of Romantic Relationships ~ The Greatest Arena for Spiritual & Emotional Growth Codependent Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics & Healthy Relationship Behavior
Also available as two e-Books Amazon Kindle format eBook 1 & eBook2
New & News June 14th 2012: Three new videos - excerpts from a recording of my Intensive Training Workshop have been posted on youtube: one in which I am talking about Positive Affirmations; one in which I am talking about Fear; and one in which I am talking about choosing to have a Relationship with a Powerful Higher Power in my recovery.
New & News February 26th, 2012: My first Update Newsletter in more than a year is posted - and my Darien page has been updated (includes pictures from our wedding last year.) I have added testimonials from February workshop to the Intensive Testimonials page.
New & News July 23rd, 2011: Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 1: Empowerment, Freedom, and Inner Peace through Inner Child Healing (aka A Formula for Spiritual Integration and Emotional Balance) is now published and I will receive the first copies on July 27th.
Also available eBook format: Amazon Kindle Book also Amazon UK and Amazon Germany and Barnes & Noble Nook
New & News January 12th 2011: Susan & I are getting married Friday!!! - I just posted my latest Update Newsletter with the news. I also posted a special wedding offers page for my phone counseling, workshop and books for anyone who wants to show their support by buying something - and a Wedding Gifts Gratefully Accepted page for anyone that wants to send us a wedding gift.
New & News August 14th 2010: On what is the 22nd anniversary of a major milestone on my Spiritual Path I am posting links to two pages which recount some of the miracles that have been part of my recovery journey - both are excerpted from installments of the story of my Spiritual Path in the Joy2MeU Journal. The first is part of the Joy2MeU Update Newsletter for October 2005 simply title Miracles - and the second is the story of writing and publishing Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls Leap of Faith ~ Publishing The Dance (I share about August 14th 1988 in this story.) It is important for me to remember the incredible miracles that have been part of my path whenever I am in a position where I am having to ask the Universe for help - for another miracle.
Additions and announcements above ~ Site Index below
The codependent three step - A Dance of Shame, Suffering, & Self-Abuse
Setting Personal Boundaries Part 3
Serenity Prayer series
The Miracle of The Twelve Step Recovery Process:
4 thru 9 "The Clean Up Steps." - Step 4 inventory
Jesus & Mary Magdalene - Jesus, sexuality, & the Bible
Metaphysical Law: Giving and Receiving ~ Donations / Love Offerings
Sanctuary Trauma ~ memories and emotional honesty
The Recovery Process for inner child healing:
Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light
Book 2 A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life
codependency movement 2 Love & Romance, Marriage and Divorce
Codependency Recovery Chapter 3 Emotional Honesty
Codependency Recovery Chapter 4 false self image
Codependency Recovery Ch. 5 Codependency = conditioned programming
Codependency Recovery Ch. 6 ego strength and self worth
Codependency Recovery Ch. 7 Multiple levels of selfishness
Codependency Recovery Ch. 8 Codependents as Emotional Vampires
Codependency Recovery Ch. 9 Codependency = Emotional Anorexia
Codependency Recovery Ch. 10 Normal Families are Dysfunctional
Codependency Recovery Ch. 11 Codependent Counselors Therapists
Codependency Recovery Ch. 12 Codependency in New Age Movement
Codependency Recovery Ch. 13 The Music of Love is not shaming
Codependency Recovery Ch. 14 Spiritual Manifesto
Codependency Recovery Ch. 15 Masculine and Feminine
In September 2005 I created this new section of my site. It includes 28 pages that were formerly on Joy2MeU.com that are now in this password protected pay to view section of the site - including the last 13 chapters of Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 2 A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life, 10 Chapters from the online book: Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective and Call for Higher Consciousness and the final 4 articles of the series of articles on The True Nature of Love.
Some helpful handouts
The True Nature of Love - Part 1, what Love is not
The True Nature of Love - Part 2, Love as Freedom
The True Nature of Love - Part 3, Love as a Vibrational Frequency
The True Nature of Love - Part 4, Energetic Clarity
The True Nature of Love - Part 5, Romantic Relationships
The True Nature of Love - Part 6, Twin Souls, Souls Mates, Kindred Spirits
Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective - 9/23/01
Attack on America - contents of online book
Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 1
Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 3
Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 4
Healthy Romantic Relationships - Interdependent, not codependent
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 2
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 3
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 4
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 5
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 6
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 7
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 8
Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 9
An Adventure in Romance - Loving & Losing Successfully
A series of articles about Robert's Spiritual Beliefs:
|A series of articles
are focused upon issues involving
gender, sexuality, romantic
relationships which evolved
into articles focused on fear of intimacy:
Codependent Defenses - Part 1 The Gatekeeper
Codependent Defenses - Part 2 disassociation vs healthy detachment
Codependent Defenses - Part 3 My Gatekeeper
on the Joy2MeU
Journal - a body of work in a password
protected part of the site
where Robert is publishing the story
of his Spiritual Path, a ongoing
personal recovery journal,
and portions of his Trilogy
and Attack on America books
not available on regular Joy2MeU site.
Leap of Faith ~ Publishing The Dance - 8/14/08
Preview Issue of Journal
Newsletter - Birth of the Journal
The Dance of the Wounded Souls Trilogy Book 1 - "In The Beginning . . ." A Magical, Mystical, Spiritual Fable
Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "An Audio Spiritual Experience" on CDs
Author's Biographical info Updated 11/12
Phone Counseling Testimonials
Intensive Training Day workshop
Intensive Training Day Testimonials
Update January 2002 & 2 Newsletters
April 2002 Update Newsletter
August 2002 Update Newsletter
November 2002 Update Newsletter
February 2003 Update Newsletter
September 2003 Update Newsletter
December 2003 Update Newsletter
March 2004 Update Newsletter + Newsletter + addendum
August 2004 Update Newsletter
December 2004 Update Newsletter
March 2005 Update Newsletter
June 2005 Update Newsletter
October 2005 Update Newsletter
January 2006 Update Newsletter
June 2006 Update Newsletter
August 2006 Update Newsletter
November 2006 Update Newsletter
August 2007 Update Newsletter
December 2007 Update Newsletter
April 2008 Update Newsletter
November 2008 Update Newsletter
Special Update Announcement (Darien) 1/09
April 2009 Update
August 2009 Update
May 2010 Update Newsletter
January 2011 Update
February 2012 Update
World map of visitors to Joy2MeU
Intensive Training Day workshop
Yahoo group announcements about Joy2MeU
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