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On this page are links to the pages of Joy2MeU.com - the web site of Robert Burney and his self publishing company Joy to You & Me Enterprises. Robert is a codependency counselor, grief therapist, inner child healing pioneer, Spiritual teacher, and author of the Joyously inspirational Spiritual book: Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls

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Metaphysical Law: Giving and Receiving ~ Donations / Love Offerings

World map showing location of last 500 visitors to Joy2MeU.com

*Newest* September 21st, 2008: New & News: There are still cabins available for the Caribbean Cruise in December.

Do you want to have healthier relationships?
Are you sick and tired of feeling like your own worst enemy? 9/21/08 A special limited time (until 10/11) combination offer: Intensive Training Day in San Diego October 12th, a copy of Joyously inspirational book Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls - plus a subscription to pay to view section of site Dancing in Light which includes the sequel to The Dance of Wounded Souls, Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light: $205.00

9/1/08 A special limited time (until 10/13) combination offer: Intensive Training Day in San Diego November 29th, a copy of Joyously inspirational book Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls - plus a subscription to pay to view section of site Dancing in Light which includes the sequel to The Dance of Wounded Souls, Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light: $169.95

New & News: An appeal for help in reprinting Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls and a new article on Joy2MeU telling the story of the origins and miraculous journey that led to publishing The Dance: Leap of Faith ~ Publishing The Dance

New & News: More information about the workshop & more on the Caribbean Cruise in December. A new Intensive date on January 3rd (my 25th sobriety birthday;-) announced.

New & News: The testimonials from the July Intensive have been added to the Intensive Testimonials page + new additions to Testimonials for website page, local resources page, and recommended links page. See New and news page

New & News: Announcing new dates for Intensive Training Day workshops on October 12th and November 29th 2008.

New & News: April 12th: The April 2008 Update Newsletter is now online - with news of an Intensive aboard a Caribbean Cruise in December.

Ordering information for Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls
Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "An Audio Spiritual Experience" on CDs Special Offers page with combinations including book with Telephone Counseling and the Dancing in Light section of my site in combination with phone Counseling (and Intensive workshop.)

Telephone Counseling with Robert Burney Counselor Training Program

Intensive Training Day workshop Assignments for Jump Starting Codependency Recovery

December Intensive on Caribbean Cruise Choosing a counselor or therapist with Discernment

Codependence Pages

The condition of Codependency / Codependence - 2/19/04

What is codependency / codependence ?

Codependence - Defined

The evolution of the term "Codependence"

Codependence vs Interdependence

Codependence as Delayed Stress Syndrome

The codependent three step - A Dance of Shame, Suffering, & Self-Abuse

The Codependency Recovery Process

Emotional abuse is Heart and Soul Mutilation -12/5/00

Emotional Honesty and Emotional Responsibility Part 1 - 1/9/01

Emotional Honesty and Emotional Responsibility Part 2 - 1/17/01

Setting Personal Boundaries Part 3 - 3/17/01

Emotional Honesty and Emotional Responsibility Part 4 - 5/23/01

Emotional Honesty and Emotional Responsibility Part 5 - 5/31/01

Spiritual Belief System Pages

Mystical Metaphysical Spirituality

A Kinder, Gentler, Cosmic Spirituality

Truth vs emotional truth

Loving and Nurturing self

Powerlessness & Empowerment

The Twelve Steps

The Twelve Steps, different interpretations

Spirituality for Agnostics and Atheists - 5/23/00

spiritual integration - 7/18/2000

Serenity Prayer series

Discernment - The Wisdom to Know the Difference - 10/14/03

Serenity - Accepting the things we cannot change - 10/30/03

Intellectual Discernment - focused within - 10/30/03

Emotional Discernment - taking power away from the fear - 11/7/03

Intellectual Discernment - shutting up the critical voice - 11/7/03

Emotional Discernment - Watch how you speak - 11/14/03

Intellectual Discernment - "have to" and the Holiday Season - 11/24/03

Emotional Discernment - disarming the emotional mine field within- 1/20/04

Intellectual Discernment - Choices, not "shoulds" - 1/20/04
Alcoholism Pages

The Death of an Alcoholic

Questions about Alcoholism - 4/16/00

Grave Emotional and Mental Disorders

Expectations & Serenity

To Parents of Alcoholics / Addicts - 8/25/03

Enabling & Rescuing vs Tough Love - 8/25/03

The Miracle of The Twelve Step Recovery Process:

A formula for integration and balance - 3/14/02

The first three steps: 1, 2, 3, and a 1, 2, 3 - 3/14/02

4 thru 9 "The Clean Up Steps." - Step 4 inventory - 3/24/02

4 thru 9 - the "house cleaning" steps - 3/24/02

10 thru 12 - The Maintenance Steps Part 1 - 2/12/04
Metaphysical Pages

Old Souls & Karma

Jesus & Christ Consciousness

Jesus & Mary Magdalene - Jesus, sexuality, & the Bible

My Spiritual Belief System and the New Millennium

New Age Misinterpretations of Metaphysical Truth - 3/8/2001

Abundant Spirituality in the New Age - 2/3/02

Metaphysical Law: Giving and Receiving ~ Donations / Love Offerings page - 8/03

Inner Child Healing Pages

Inner child healing - How to begin

Inner child healing - Why do it?

Learning to Love our self

Loving the Wounded Child Within

Feeling the Feelings

Co-Creation: Owning your Power to Manifest Love -1/1/02

Grief, Love, & Fear of Intimacy

Fear of Intimacy - 2/8/02

Reprogramming our dysfunctional ego defenses

Internal Boundaries - the key to balance

Internal Boundaries

Inner Child Paradigm

Inner Awareness - Internal Census

Union Within - 5 years later - 9/3/01

Inner Child Healing

Setting Boundaries with inner children - 1/2/04

The Inner Children that need Boundaries

Sanctuary Trauma ~ memories and emotional honesty - 10/7/03

Common Emotional Defenses

Positive Affirmations

More on Positive Affirmations

Recovery from Codependency

The Grief Process

Grieving - examples of how the process works -11/8/01

The Recovery Process for inner child healing:

Sharing experience, strength, and hope, taking action - 7/18/00

spiritual integration - 7/18/2000

through the fear - 7/18/2000

a dance of balance - 10/7/2000

The Process of Processing

Processing 2 -10/7/2000

Choosing a counselor or therapist - 4/24/01

Assignments for Jump Starting Codependency Recovery - 7/28/04

Codependency Recovery:
Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light
Book 2 A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life Codependency Recovery: Author's Foreword - 5/13/03

The codependency movement is NOT ruining marriages! - 4/14/02

codependency movement 2 Love & Romance, Marriage and Divorce - 4/21/02

Codependency Recovery Chapter 3 Emotional Honesty - 5/7/02

Codependency Recovery Chapter 4 false self image - 5/27/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 5 Codependency = conditioned programming - 5/27/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 6 ego strength and self worth - 7/5/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 7 Multiple levels of selfishness - 8/28/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 8 Codependents as Emotional Vampires - 9/8/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 9 Codependency = Emotional Anorexia - 10/21/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 10 Normal Families are Dysfunctional - 11/20/02

Codependency Recovery Ch. 11 Codependent Counselors Therapists - 1/2/03

Codependency Recovery Ch. 12 Codependency in New Age Movement - 1/16/03

Codependency Recovery Ch. 13 The Music of Love is not shaming - 2/3/03

Codependency Recovery Ch. 14 Spiritual Manifesto - 3/27/03

Codependency Recovery Ch. 15 Masculine and Feminine - 5/28/03

Dancing in Light
In September 2005 I created this new section of my site. It includes 28 pages that were formerly on Joy2MeU.com that are now in this password protected pay to view section of the site - including the last 13 chapters of Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Book 2 A Dysfunctional Relationship with Life, 10 Chapters from the online book: Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective and Call for Higher Consciousness and the final 4 articles of the series of articles on The True Nature of Love.

Miscellaneous Topics Pages

Emotional Incest

Emotional Defenses

Emotional Defenses 2

Stinking Thinking

Emotional Release Techniques

Roles In Dysfunctional Families

Holidays, Anniversaries, and Birthdays

Wounded Parents

The True Nature of Love - Part 1, what Love is not

The True Nature of Love - Part 2, Love as Freedom

The True Nature of Love - Part 3, Love as a Vibrational Frequency

The True Nature of Love - Part 4, Energetic Clarity

The True Nature of Love - Part 5, Romantic Relationships

The True Nature of Love - Part 6, Twin Souls, Souls Mates, Kindred Spirits

Buddha, Buddhism, and Japanese cultural dysfunction - 5/14/00

Buddhism II and Communicating Clearly - 8/14/00

Attack on America - A Spiritual Healing Perspective - 9/23/01

Attack on America - contents of online book - 10/20/01

Romantic Relationships Pages

Romantic Relationships and Valentine's Day

Wedding Prayer/Meditation on Romantic Commitment

The Heartbreak of Romantic Relationships

Part 2 of Heartbreak

Part 3 of Heartbreak

The Emotional Dynamics of Dysfunctional Relationships

Part 2 of Emotional Dynamics

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 1

Codependent Relationships Dynamics -part 2

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 3

Codependent Relationships Dynamics - part 4

Healthy Romantic Relationships - Interdependent, not codependent

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 2

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 3

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 4

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 5

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 6

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 7

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 8

Healthy Romantic Relationships - part 9

An Adventure in Romance - Loving & Losing Successfully

The following articles are some that were originally published on my Suite101 directory topic page Inner Child/Codependency Recovery. For information about those articles (which I stopped writing in October 2005) see Suite101 Articles page

Letting Go of Unavailable People - 8/03

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 1 - 8/03

Obsession / Obsessive Thinking Part 2 - 8/03

To Parents of Alcoholics / Addicts - 8/03

Enabling & Rescuing vs Tough Love - 8/03

Suite101 Discussion Q & A - 1/05

Q & A + Random thoughts on Parenting - 4/05

A series of articles about Robert's Spiritual Beliefs:

A Higher Power of my own understanding - 9/05

A Higher Power of my own understanding 2 - the beginning of empowerment - 10/05

Spirituality - a broader perspective - 11/05

Inspiration from the Big Book of Alcoholic Anonymous - 1/06

God the Father, and my father - 3/06

Quantum Physics - expanding my Spiritual paradigm - 3/06

Vibrational Dance - Universe = Dance of Energy - 7/06

Love as a vibrational frequency - 7/06

Balance on the horizontal, Integration of the vertical - 9/06

Higher Power of my own understanding - final word - 11/06

A series of articles which are focused upon issues involving gender, sexuality, romantic relationships which evolved into articles focused on fear of intimacy: Men and Women are from the same planet - 4/04

The Maiden and the Horndog - 4/04

Old tapes / traditional beliefs and gender roles - 6/04

Monogamy - A Spiritual Teachers Perspective - 5/04

Setting Internal Boundaries in relationship to Romantic, Sexual Relationships - 10/04

Taking self worth out of the equation in Romantic Relationships - 11/04

Falling in love as a choice - 3/05

Homosexuality - and the Bible - 4/04

The Crippling Shame of Incest / Sexual Abuse - 5/04

Sexuality Abuse - 6/04

Emotional Incest = Sexuality Abuse - 9/04

Energetic Attraction - emotional familiarity or Karmic connection? - 4/05

Emotional Intimacy = in to me see - 6/05

Fear of Intimacy - Relationship Phobia - 6/05

Codependent Defenses - Part 1 The Gatekeeper - 5/07

Codependent Defenses - Part 2 disassociation vs healthy detachment - 5/07

Codependent Defenses - Part 3 My Gatekeeper - 5/07

Cover of Joy2MeU Journal of Codependence counselor/Spiritual teacher.

Joy2MeU Journal. Information on the Joy2MeU Journal - a body of work in a password protected part of the site where Robert is publishing the story of his Spiritual Path, a ongoing personal recovery journal, and portions of his Trilogy and Attack on America books not available on regular Joy2MeU site. Testimonials for Journal

Contents page of Joy2MeU Journal

Premier Preview Issue of Journal includes:

Newsletter - Birth of the Journal

The Story of "Joy to You & Me"

Robert's Daily Prayers & Affirmations

The Dance of the Wounded Souls Trilogy Book 1 - "In The Beginning . . ." A Magical, Mystical, Spiritual Fable

Information Pages Index
This is an index page of pages that are primarily informational while those above are content.

Book Ordering information

Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "An Audio Spiritual Experience" on CDs

Special Offers page

Author's Foreword to Book

Author's Biographical info Updated 2/03

Special Offer multiple copies

Global Priority Overseas offers

Book Stores stocking The Dance

Future Publications

Translation Page

Amazon.com Honor Page

Donations / Love Offerings

Telephone Counseling

Phone Counseling Testimonials

Intensive Training Day workshop

Intensive Training DayTestimonials

Recommended Books

Recommended Links

Referral to Local Resources page

Find CoDA Meetings

Suite101 Articles

Ten Commandments of Self-Esteem + The Rules for Being Human +

Serenity Prayer + Characteristics of Adults Shamed in Childhood +

Twisted Codependent Thinking + Growth Process/Spiral +

Joy to You & Me pages

The links below are to Update Newsletters - some of which contain quite a bit of content in addition to announcements about what has been added to Joy2MeU and news of Joy to You & Me and Robert.

Update November 1999

Update December 1999

Update February 2000

Update March 2000

Update May 2000

Update July 2000 & News

Update October 2000 & Part 2

Update January 2001

Update March 2001

Update May 2001 & 3 Newsletters

Update_August 2001

Update October 2001

Update January 2002 & 2 Newsletters

April 2002 Update Newsletter

August 2002 Update Newsletter

November 2002 Update Newsletter

February 2003 Update Newsletter

June 2003 Update Newsletter + 2 Newsletters

September 2003 Update Newsletter

December 2003 Update Newsletter

March 2004 Update Newsletter + Newsletter + addendum

August 2004 Update Newsletter

December 2004 Update Newsletter

March 2005 Update Newsletter

June 2005 Update Newsletter

October 2005 Update Newsletter

January 2006 Update Newsletter

March 2006 Update Newsletter + Newsletter

June 2006 Update Newsletter

August 2006 Update Newsletter

November 2006 Update Newsletter

March 2007 Update Newsletter + addendum

August 2007 Update Newsletter

December 2007 Update Newsletter

April 2008 Update Newsletter

Site Search Engine

Notification of Changes

World map of visitors to Joy2MeU

Donations / Love Offerings

Upcoming appearances Information

Intensive Training Day workshop

December Intensive on Caribbean Cruise

"An Audio Spiritual Experience" on CDs

Special Offers page

Yahoo group announcements about Joy2MeU

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